Annual Men's Kink Retreat in California

About GearUp

GearUp Weekend is an annual retreat where the next generation of kinky/kink-curious guys and leathermen can socialize with, learn from, and play with other men of all ages in a safe and friendly environment.  We also host regular events and play parties throughout the year.

Our goal is to provide education and community in the San Francisco Bay Area that welcomes all men, including trans men, of all levels of experience.

We use “Leathermen” to mean all kinks and fetishes! At GearUp Weekend you’ll find guys into all kinds of gear (such as leather, rubber, sports gear, uniforms, spandex, underwear) and all kinds of kinky activities – domination and submission, fisting, pup play, chastity, roleplay, and more.

For up-to-date information about events, keep reading or join our Facebook group.

Annual GearUp Weekend Retreat

July 12-15, 2018

General Registration opens Tuesday, January 30, 2018! Click here for details.

GearUp Play Parties 2018

We host play parties to bring kinky men together in a safe and judgment-free atmosphere. Parties are targeted for any experience level and can be a great way to meet others with similar interests!

  • Saturday, January 13
  • Saturday, March 10
  • Saturday, May 12
  • Saturday, June 23—‘Black is the New Pink Party’ (Our special Pride Weekend Event)
  • Saturday, September 15
  • Saturday, November 3

We’ll send out specific updates on each event as they draw near. All parties will be held at Catalyst (1060 Folsom), unless otherwise specified.

About the Committee

GearUp events are organized and run by a committee of volunteers on a non-profit basis. All committee meetings are open to anyone who wishes to attend. For information on meetings just email us at

Committee members include:

Rascal Pup, Committee Chairman.
Mick S, Treasurer
Stephen C, Founder, Bar.
Nick C, Registration
Tim M, Parties
Craig S, Parties
Dave OTN, Marketing
Dave L, Medical
Jeremy F, Technology
Brue P, Programming
Tim B
Dirk B
Eric D
Justin W, Webmaster and Scholarship Coordinator.