GearUp Weekend Emails 2026
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Hey GearUp Camper,
We are just 3 weeks away from an incredible getaway and we only have 10 spaces left!
We invite you to bring gently used leather gear and related items that are no longer in use—whether they've been in the back of your closet or simply outgrown your style—for our Gear Grab event during the Weekend. Hang on to your gear grab donations until Friday 8pm, then bring it to Tim or Badger at the picnic tables after dinner. Your donation could make a big difference for someone in our community who’s just getting started or needs a little help gearing up.
We’re looking for:
Leather jackets, vests, pants, chaps
Harnesses, cuffs, collars, belts
Boots and footwear
Accessories like caps, gloves, and toys
Rules for Gear Grab
No exchange of cash or favors
No insertable toys (butt toys) gags are ok.
Newbies to Gearup and the kink scene have first choice; then those who donated; then everyone else; and the newbies again.
Please label your gear with size
Join Telegram
If you have not already done so, we hope you will join our Telegram group. We have a variety of channels dedicated to initiate conversations, introductions, tips, and rideshare.
REMINDER: We need to have your legal name that matches your photo ID on our records at check-in registration. If you gave us a badge name, we will only use that, and keep your legal name private. If you did not provide your legal name when purchasing a ticket, please send a follow up message to registration@gearupweekend.com.
GUW T-shirts Available - Orders Close May 22
Ordering is still open for Commemorative 2026 GearUp T-shirts. Sizes are available in XS-3XL with prices at $28-$32. When ordered, your shirt will be waiting for you at camp.
Endorsed Event - Leathermen’s Discussion Group on June 3
Just in time for kinky summer camp season, LDG’s upcoming event, titled Finding Great Pickup Play At Events, with Raj!, aims to share and discuss practical advice for you. Raj Freed will present techniques you can use to quickly meet people, find common interests, and have great scenes with. Then, you will have the chance to practice them together.
When: June 3, 2026
Doors Open at 7PM, Program Starts at 7:30PM
Where: Transform 1060
1060 Folsom St, San Francisco, CA 94103
Need help?
Email info@gearupweekend.com
Yours in kink,
The GearUp Weekend Committee
Community Partners
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Hey GearUp Camper,
We’re almost there! As you get ready for an amazing weekend, we want to remind you to take care of yourself—and your fellow campers—before the big event. Meet someone who is interested in the GUW experience? We are nearly sold out and would be glad to have their company. Encourage them to come to one of our meetups on May 10th at the AIDS Memorial Grove from 12-4PM or SF Eagle Bar 3-7PM.
REMINDER: We need to have your legal name that matches your photo ID on our records at check-in registration. If you did not provide your legal name when purchasing a ticket, please send a follow up message to registration@gearupweekend.com.
If you have not already done so, we hope you will join our Telegram group. We have a variety of channels dedicated to initiate conversations, introductions, tips, and rideshare.
Health & Safety Recommendations
If you are feeling unwell before heading up to camp we encourage you to recover at home.
Plan your STI Testing beforehand to play with confidence.
Take it easy before the event to stay healthy and avoid bringing any unwanted “visitors.”
Hydrate & Rest Up – While at camp you’ll want to be at your best to enjoy the weekend. Remember, if drinking alcohol, to alternate with water and take cooling breaks as needed during the hot day.
Travel & Ride Planning
Still figuring out your ride? Post in the Telegram group channel Rideshare for carpool options.
Need help transporting gear?
We will have a gear drop off on Tue, June 9th, from 6-9 PM at 4444 17th Street, San Francisco. And pickup will be at the same location, June 14th 6-8 PM.
GUW T-shirts Available
Ordering is still open for Commemorative 2026 GearUp T-shirts. Sizes are available in XS-3XL with prices at $28-$32. When ordered, your shirt will be waiting for you at camp. Orders close May 22, 2026.
Need help?
Email info@gearupweekend.com
Yours in kink,
The GearUp Weekend Committee
Premier Sponsor: Mr-S-Leather
Event Sponsor: City Racquet Shop
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Kinksters,
We’re looking forward to seeing you soon! Join us on May 10 for a fun, low-key chance to connect, mingle, and get a taste of the GearUp Weekend community before camp. Whether you’re coming solo or with friends, it’s a great opportunity to meet other attendees, catch up with familiar faces, and start building those camp connections early.
Event Host: Flagging in the Park
When: May 10th, 2026 12PM - 4PM
Where: AIDS Memorial Grove - Golden Gate Park
Event Host: SF Eagle Beer Bust - Benefiting TBA
When: May 10th, 2026 3PM - 7PM
Where: SF Eagle - 398 12th Street, San Francisco, CA 94103
Stop by one or both—we’d love to see you there! You will be able to spot the GUW group by those wearing black GearUp Weekend Command Shirts worn by Committee Members.
Don’t Forget Your GearUp Shirt:
Going to camp? Shirt orders are still open! If you want to rep GearUp at camp (and beyond), be sure to place your order before the May 22 deadline. Sizes are available in XS-3XL with prices at $28-$32. When ordered, your shirt will be waiting for you at camp.
Behind the Scenes: Site Visit
The committee recently visited Saratoga Springs Retreat Center to walk the grounds, plan spaces, and get everything ready for June. We’re excited about what’s coming together—and even more excited to share it with you soon. As you start thinking about camp, consider what activities or scenes you’d like to explore—outside of programing, you’ll be able to share and discover ideas on the Lodge Whiteboard to help connect with others and make it happen.
Why people love GearUp Weekend:
GearUp Weekend is more than an event—it’s a community experience. Many campers arrive not knowing anyone and quickly find themselves welcomed, supported, and included. With a strong focus on beginner-friendly learning, consent, and connection, people leave with new skills, new friendships, and memories that last well beyond the weekend.
Thinking about joining us? There are a limited number of spots available. Whether it’s your first time or your fifth, there’s a place for you at GearUp Weekend.
Questions? Email us at registration@gearupweekend.com
Yours in kink,
The GearUp Weekend Committee
Premier Sponsor: Mr-S-Leather
Event Sponsor: City Racquet Shop
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Kinksters,
GearUp Weekend is excited to host two social events that allow people to learn about GUW from the committee and previous attendees. It is also a great opportunity to meet people that will attend this year’s event. Start making connections before camp even begins.
Event Host: Flagging in the Park
When: May 10th, 2026 12PM - 4PM
Where: AIDS Memorial Grove - Golden Gate Park
Event Host: SF Eagle Beer Bust - Benefiting TBA
When: May 10th, 2026 3PM - 7PM
Where: SF Eagle - 398 12th Street, San Francisco, CA 94103
You will be able to spot the GUW group by those wearing black Gear Up Weekend Command Shirts worn by Committee Members. Say hi, ask us questions, and mingle with the community we support.
Merch Available:
GearUp Weekend is launching a Commemorative 2026 GearUp Tee only available to 2026 attendees. Sizes are available in XS-3XL with prices at $28-$32. When ordered, your shirt will be waiting for you at camp. Orders close May 22, 2026.
What is GearUp Weekend:
GearUp Weekend is a kink-focused retreat for gay, bi, trans, and queer men (21+) to explore, learn, and connect in a welcoming, low-pressure environment. From workshops and play spaces to social events and hands-on experiences, it’s a space to discover new interests, deepen existing ones, and celebrate kink alongside a supportive community.
Why people love GearUp Weekend:
GearUp Weekend is more than an event—it’s a community experience. Many campers arrive not knowing anyone and quickly find themselves welcomed, supported, and included. With a strong focus on beginner-friendly learning, consent, and connection, people leave with new skills, new friendships, and memories that last well beyond the weekend.
Thinking about joining us? There are a limited number of spots available. Whether it’s your first time or your fifth, there’s a place for you at GearUp Weekend.
Questions? Email us at registration@gearupweekend.com
Yours in kink,
The GearUp Weekend Committee
GearUp Weekend is generously sponsored by:
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Kinksters,
GearUp Weekend is back—this time in June—and we can’t wait to gather again for a weekend of kink, connection, and community. Whether you're returning to camp or thinking about joining us for the first time, GearUp Weekend is a chance to explore your interests, meet incredible people, and enjoy a uniquely kinky retreat in the California hills. Also, we are planning a social soon with more details to share in the coming weeks.
We are also planning a social soon—stay tuned for more details in the coming weeks.
Event Details:
Dates: June 11-14, 2026
Location: Saratoga Springs Retreat Center
Pricing: All-inclusive weekend starts at $550
Spots are limited due to venue capacity, and GearUp Weekend typically sells out. Be sure to register early to secure your place at camp.
What is GearUp Weekend:
GearUp Weekend is an annual retreat where gay, bi, trans, and queer men (21+) come together to explore kink in a friendly, inclusive, and low-pressure environment. Whether you're brand new or a seasoned player, you’ll find workshops, play spaces, social events, and hands-on opportunities to learn, connect, and celebrate your kinks alongside a welcoming community of fellow kinksters.
What is new for 2026:
Many returning campers told us that July could get pretty warm at Saratoga Springs. Based on that feedback, we’ve moved GearUp Weekend to June this year to take advantage of cooler early-summer weather and make the experience more comfortable for everyone.
What to expect:
Expect gear of every kind—from leather, rubber, sports gear, and uniforms to pups and more—plus workshops, open play spaces, poolside hangs, social mixers, and plenty of opportunities to explore at your own pace. Whether you're trying something new, enjoying your favorite kink, or simply soaking in the atmosphere, there’s no pressure to participate in anything that isn’t your thing. First time at GearUp? You won’t be the only one. Many campers arrive not knowing anyone and quickly find themselves welcomed into the community.
Put your phone down and pick up some fun. GearUp is a mostly unplugged weekend—cameras on phones are covered and WiFi is limited so everyone can enjoy a private, present, and playful environment.
GearUp is also built on a strong culture of consent and respect. Ask before touching, communicate openly, and remember that everyone gets to choose what they do—or don’t—participate in.
Why people love GearUp:
What makes GearUp special is the community. Returning campers and the organizing committee work hard to create a welcoming, beginner-friendly environment where people can ask questions, learn new skills, and make real connections. Many attendees arrive not knowing anyone and leave with new friends, mentors, and unforgettable memories.
For more details, including accommodation options, visit our website GearUp Weekend.
Questions? Email us at registration@gearupweekend.com
Miss an email? Visit previous emails here.
Yours in kink,
The GearUp Weekend Committee
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Kinksters,
The wait is almost over—GearUp Weekend 2026 registration is officially open February 10 at 7pm! Secure your spot and get ready for an unforgettable weekend of kink, connection, and exploration. Make sure to see our current rates on our websiteand the reservation link in the maroon colored box below.
We are excited about using Sickening Events as our new reservation system for camp this year. To help you through the process we want to share some expected questions you will come across on the intake questionnaire.
Be prepared to answer the following REQUIRED questions—(Some options may vary depending on your lodging selections). Your reservation will not be held or saved until you have completed the ENTIRE registration process. There is NO CART function. Visa and Mastercard are the preferred method of payment.
Question: What name do you want on your name badge? This is how you will be known at camp, not your legal name. (Sir John. John. john. Pup john, John Smith, etc.)
Question: What is your (the attendees) full legal name? This information is never shared with anyone but we are required to have it in case of emergency at camp.
Question: What is your Emergency Contact's full name? (Not attending GearUp Weekend.)
Question: What is your Emergency Contact's Phone Number? (10 digits)
Question: Have you attended GearUp Men's Weekend previously? (Yes or No)
Question: GearUp Weekend is a volunteer-run event. Everyone is expected to commit to a 2-hour shift to make the weekend a success. We've also found that "chores" really help to create a community at GearUp. Please choose up to 3 chores. (Bartender, Runner, Kitchen Cleanup, Teardown on Sunday)
Question: Some of our chore assignments may involve lifting up to 50 lbs. Would you be able to complete the task? (Yes or No)
Question: Do you have any dietary restrictions?
If YES: Question: Please list food allergies and dietary restrictions. Please be sure to indicate which are medical allergies, which are dietary lifestyle (vegan, vegetarian, etc), and which are food preferences. We try our best to accommodate all requests.
Question: GearUp Men's Weekend offers a schedule of programs to attendees. Please share 2-3 ideas for programs that you would be interested in attending.
If Cabin, Glamping, or RV Lead:
Question: Who are your Cabin/Glamping/RV mates?
If Cabin, Glamping, or RV Roommate:
Question: Who is your Cabin/Glamping/RV Lead? (Cabins/Glamping/RV is in high demand. If your lead doesn't successfully get a Spot, your registration will default to a camping slot. You can upgrade to other types if they are available.)
If RV:
Question: What are the dimensions of your R/V (Length, Width, Height)?
Question: You acknowledge that there is only a limited 110v A/C supply and no water or sewage facilities. (Yes or No)
Question: I acknowledge that the RV must of off property by 11 AM on Sunday and that (for rental RVs scheduled to be picked up) I will wait on-property until it is picked up.
Question: Do you have a Telegram handle? Trust us! You want to be in the group so you can hit the ground running at camp.(Yes or No)
If YES: Question: What is the Telegram handle that you would like to use in the 2026 Attendee Group?
If NO: Question: We very highly recommend you join the Telegram group. But if you really don't want to, please acknowledge that you recognize *not* being in the Telegram group might be a choice you regret. (We hear from people who wish they'd joined every single year.)
Waiver: I am 21 years of age or older and agree to sign a liability waiver at check-in to camp.
Question: WAITLIST: Please check the boxes of any registration type you would like to join the waitlist for if a lead spot of that type becomes available.
Sickening Events GearUp Weekend 2026
Event Details:
Dates: June 11-14, 2026
Location: Saratoga Springs Retreat Center
Pricing: All-inclusive weekend starts at $550
What is it: GearUp Weekend is an annual retreat designed to help gay, bi, trans, and queer men (21+) learn about and explore kink in a friendly, inclusive, and low-pressure environment. With workshops, play spaces, social events, and hands-on opportunities, it’s a chance to connect, discover new interests, and celebrate your kinks—whether you’re experienced or brand new.
Who is it for: GearUp Weekend is for male—gay, bi, trans, and queer men (21+)—kinksters and fetish enthusiasts of all backgrounds and experience levels—whether you’re brand new or a seasoned player. We welcome all men, including male-identified trans men, and offer a friendly community, beginner-friendly resources, and dedicated spaces to ask questions, learn, and play.
Scholarship Opportunity: If you or someone you know are looking to have the chance to experience the magic of GearUp Weekend, check out our scholarship program that offers reduced-cost attendance for qualifying participants. *Scholarships are awarded based on financial need and community involvement
Have questions? Email us at registration@gearupweekend.com
Yours in kink,
The GearUp Weekend Committee
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Kinksters,
GearUp Weekend is back, and registration opens on Tuesday February 10 at 7pm Pacific! Mark your calendars and spread the word—let’s make this year’s event even more unforgettable. Please note that this year’s event is moving up to June. If you joined us in 2025 and were a part of the Telegram Group, please be advised that it will close at the end of May.
Event Details:
Dates: June 11-14, 2026
Location: Saratoga Springs Retreat Center
Pricing: All-inclusive weekend starts at $550
What is it: GearUp Weekend is an annual retreat designed to help gay, bi, trans, and queer men (21+) learn about and explore kink in a friendly, inclusive, and low-pressure environment. With workshops, play spaces, social events, and hands-on opportunities, it’s a chance to connect, discover new interests, and celebrate your kinks—whether you’re experienced or brand new.
Who is it for: GearUp Weekend is for male—gay, bi, trans, and queer men (21+)—kinksters and fetish enthusiasts of all backgrounds and experience levels—whether you’re brand new or a seasoned player. We welcome all men, including male-identified trans men, and offer a friendly community, beginner-friendly resources, and dedicated spaces to ask questions, learn, and play.
For more details including accommodation options, visit our website gearupweekend.com.
Share Your Story!
Have you ever wondered what it’d be like to have a scene by a pool? Play out a fantasy like this fellow camper:
Someone gave me head by the side of the swimming pool, and we both got very absorbed in the task. Not until I finally and very loudly came in his mouth did I look up to see the entire pool had been watching, and was giving us a standing ovation.
If you have a fun, meaningful, or spicy memory from past GearUp Weekends, we’d love to hear from you! Share it anonymously or let us tag you when we share it. Share Your Story!
Got questions? Email us at registration@gearupweekend.com
Miss an email? Visit previous emails here.
Yours in kink,
The GearUp Weekend Committee
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Ho! Ho! Ho!
Whether you were cosplaying Krampus or being a delightfully naughty boy, we hope your holidays were as wickedly fun as you are!
We’re brewing up big plans in 2026, so stay tuned for:
New Dates for GearUp Weekend 2026: June 11-14, 2026
Registration opening details
New registration platform
Meet & Greet Mixers
And more surprises to get you excited for the new year
Ready your calendars, polish your gear, and get ready to make 2026 unforgettable. See you soon, studs!
– The GearUp Team